August 29, 2024 Mental HealthWellbeingCulture

Living with a rare disease means living with uncertainty, loss, and change. The mental health impact of this is profound — and in many South Asian communities, it remains deeply stigmatised.

The grief of chronic illness

Chronic illness involves loss: of a former self, of plans, of certainty. Grief is a natural response to this, and it doesn’t follow a tidy timeline. Allowing yourself to grieve without judgement is part of healing.

Anxiety and diagnosis limbo

Many rare disease patients spend years — sometimes decades — without a diagnosis. This diagnostic odyssey carries its own psychological toll: the frustration of not being believed, the exhaustion of being investigated, and the strange grief of receiving a diagnosis that confirms something is seriously wrong.

The stigma barrier

In South Asian communities, mental health struggles are often framed as weakness, spiritual failure, or family shame. These narratives are actively harmful. Depression and anxiety are physiological conditions, not character flaws.

Getting support

  • Talk to your GP about a mental health referral
  • Look for therapists with experience in chronic illness
  • Peer support groups (in-person or online) can complement professional support
  • Our podcast includes conversations where guests speak openly about their mental health journeys